I really wish I was a better author, because this story could use a creative writer that is better with words that myself. But, we'll just have to let the facts speak for themselves, and hopefully you'll have a laugh (at our expense)!
Yesterday was Winter Fest up at Baptist Lake, and Harold and Kara invited us to their cottage to join in the fun. After an unusually mild winter here so far, we have finally gotten some winter weather and we were excited to have a day of fun up at the lake. It was a chilly 5° when we arrived, but most everyone got busy playing ice hockey on the lake and stayed plenty warm. After lunch Mike, myself, our boys, and Alyssa went for a walk across the lake to Turtle Cove (a small area on the lake where in the summer there is a lot of time spent fishing, turtle hunting, and kayaking). We had a nice walk there, despite Mike having to calm my nerves at one point where the ice was a little slushy right on top. We were out in Turtle Cove for a few minutes when Jackson said he had to go potty. When you have a three-year-old that's only a few weeks into staying dry consistently, you don't mess around! Being a boy mom, I'm generally in favor of the kids using the great outdoors when it's possible, but it just wouldn't work well in this situation. So, we started heading back. The wind was against us now, and made it a little more challenging. Mike had Jackson on his back most of the way, and at some point he started jogging with him. I think that was just because Mike wanted to get some exercise in because he has missed a few days this week due to snow plowing. It must not have been for the bathroom need because once they arrived back at the cottage, Mike forgot that Jackson needed to go, and when I returned about 5 minutes later Jackson told me he had to go. Of course it fell on me to take him in because Mike said, "You do so much better with that!" Mm-hmm. I was about to play hockey, but I figured I'd just take him in a minute and then come back out (although, "quick" is not in Jackson's vocabulary when you're trying to get him to do something). I took him in the house, we got his snow gear off, and headed to the bathroom. And, here's where things take an interesting turn!
I brought Jackson over to the bathroom, he went in, and I shut the door partway and was standing in the hallway giving him some privacy. He said, "I want to lock the door!" I told him "no" and even for a split-second thought he wouldn't actually be able to lock it. (It's an old-style lock that you slide across into a small hole in the trim.) Next thing you know, I hear the lock slide shut. My first thought was, "Well, if he can shut the lock, he can open it. No worries." Well, a couple minutes later I realized it wasn't going to be quite that simple. I went through many explanations of, "You know that thing you slid across to lock the door? Slide it the other way!" Nope. I was not making any headway. Kara and Vonda were the only other ones in the cottage at the time, they gave it a shot and had no luck either. I could see there was really nothing we could do from our side of the door to access the lock - hinges on the inside, and the way the handle and lock are, there's nothing we could do. So, unless we could get him to figure it out, we'd be busting in the door at some point. After about 15-20 minutes I went and got Mike. I was hoping he could explain things differently or something to get through to Jackson.
Here's another interesting twist! I summoned Mike out of his hockey game, and when I told him Jackson locked himself in the bathroom, he said he had showed Jackson how to do the lock that morning! Me, "Are you serious?!?!" Mike said Jackson had asked about it when they were in there earlier, and so he showed him how it worked. (As observant as Jackson is, and he really has a good memory for many things, apparently he forgot the part about UNlocking...) So began another hour of trying to solve this without breaking in the door. Note: if Jackson had been upset and scared we certainly would have broken in much sooner. But because he was calm, we were calm, and that gave us time to try and resolve this situation without doing any damage. At some point everyone else came in from playing hockey, and so now we really had a crowd. Various people tried to get through to Jackson, and there were some valiant efforts. Will had the idea to draw a picture of the door showing him what to look for and slide it to him underneath, and I thought that actually had a chance of working. No luck. I really, really wish I had a recording of the whole thing - Jackson's response to questions and instructions in his cute little, chipper voice were cracking me up. There were just a couple times he said, "I want to get out!", but he never got upset; I think he was enjoying the time to explore the bathroom, and I'm pretty sure he was liking all the attention. Actually, our biggest challenge was how distracted he was. We couldn't get him to focus on what we wanted him to do! Here's an example conversation once we removed the door handle to at least see in a little bit through the small hole, and see if we could accomplish anything with the screwdriver:
Harold: "Hey, Jackson! I can see you, can you see me?" Jackson comes and looks through the hole.
Jackson: "Uncle Harold, I can see your eye, can you see my eye?"
Harold: "Yeah, I can. Now look above my eye, do you see the lock?"
Jackson: "What color is your eye?"
Harold: "Blue. Now, can you look up above my eye at the lock?"
Jackson: "Blue? What color is my eye?"
There were several conversations similar to that. Or, we'd be giving him instructions and he'd be answering like he was paying attention, "Yup!", and then we'd see that he was busy playing with the soap or going through one of the drawers. When we could get him to actually look at the door, for some reason he'd get focused on the handle, not the lock up above it.
"Jackson, we need you to focus. Are you looking at the door?"
"Yup!"
"Okay, do you see the handle?"
"Yup!"
"Good. Look above the handle. Do you see the thing you slid shut when you locked the door?"
"This?" And he'd jiggle the handle.
"Nope. Look ABOVE the handle, buddy. Do you see it?"
"Yup!"
"Slide it back towards the wall."
"Like this?" And he'd jiggle the handle again.
We went round and round so many times. And then there was yet another interesting turn! He said he had to poop. Well, he was in the right place... On the one hand, I was thrilled because we've really been struggling with him in this area. He's been doing great at staying dry (even overnight) for a while now, but #2 has been very frustrating. So, the fact he was in the bathroom and said he had to go was great, but on the other hand, I know he can't wipe good on his own. We took a break from the rescue operation for him to use the facilities. Mike and I peeked through the hole to make sure he was getting on the toilet okay, and it was hilarious! He had taken everything from the waist down off, and was climbing up on the toilet with his bare little buns sticking out. He did his business, I think tried to wipe?, and got down and got dressed again. We decided to just try a little longer before breaking in the door.
After a total of probably about 1 hour and 20 minutes or so, Mike pushed in the door. There is some fixing to be done on the trim, but I suppose it could be worse. After I cleaned up Jackson better from his bathroom usage, Mike spent some time looking at the lock with him - showing him how to do it, and seeing if he could do it himself. Mike determined it must have been pure "luck" that Jackson got it locked in the first place, and he wouldn't have gotten it unlocked on his own - the door has to be positioned just right, and he could barely reach it. So, now he's been strongly instructed not to lock the door!!
It's funny how drained I felt afterwards. Even though I wasn't worried about him because I knew he was fine and that we'd be able to get him out, it was still a relief when it was finally over and I felt wiped out! I didn't really have any more desire to go out and play hockey.
I'm pretty sure this story is going to be talked about for years. Every summer when we're spending time at the cottage. Jackson's never going to live it down!
Sunday, January 27, 2019
Tuesday, January 1, 2019
Year in Review
2018. Another full year for our family. Full of blessings, full of challenges, just full of life, and I am so thankful. Life certainly hasn't been perfect, but doesn't that make the good times that much sweeter?
I'm going to attempt doing a brief review of our year. No details, just bullet points to make sure I get through it, otherwise it'll never happen!
January: Caleb got braces. Mike and I had an overnight without kids thanks to my brother and sister-in-law. Jose's mom cooked dinner for us at his house (amazing). Near the end of the month Mike went to Guyana on a missions trip with my parent's, brother, nephew, and another gentleman.
February: Mike returned from Guyana (yay!). Logan cooked a meal for us with Grandma. I went to Ohio for a few days - met up with college friends for dinner in Columbus, went to chapel with my nieces and their boyfriends, was able to have supper with my sister and her family as they were in town for the weekend, went to a special brunch for Amy as she was inducted into the Athletic Hall of Fame at Cedarville. Took the boys for a fun evening at the Holland Aquatic Center. Caleb had his ears checked out due to failing the hearing test at school.
March: Took the boys to Rebounderz (we had told them at Christmas that we would take them sometime and we finally got to go!). Went over to the Padding's for an evening. Levi had a friend over to play one weekend, and then went to a friend birthday party the next. I had a few activities at school I tried to help out with.
April: We survived Spring Break (which is quite a feat in Michigan). My guys made me proud at our church's Pinewood Derby.
May: Levi had his 6th birthday. I had an outpatient surgery (ablation). I worked a garage sale along with some other ladies from church - I look forward to it every year! Kicked off the summer with a cottage day over the Memorial Day weekend. Last day of school for the summer! (I was actually looking forward to it due to the difficulty of getting Jackson to cooperate with the school schedule.)
June: Caleb and Logan got to go to a friend's birthday party at a park. We had a couple cottage Saturday's. Caleb and Logan went to Drama Camp at school. I was asked to coach the high school volleyball team at Libertas. Mike went wake boarding at Action Water Sports for his birthday. We had a busy week at our church's VBS - the older three boys attended, I worked, and so Jackson was in the nursery (he was ready to be done by the end of the week!). Also, in the afternoons of that week, Caleb and Levi attended our school's soccer camp. I attended Libertas' Volleyball Camp. A few of us ran the Zeeland Zoom. Tom & Tera came into town and we had time to hang out with them!
July: Plenty of time at the cottage between the 4th of July and a "family weekend" with Tom & Tera around. And, around this time I was starting to get obsessed with trying to prepare for the volleyball season. Levi went to a friend's birthday party. Caleb, Logan, and Levi went to Chess Camp at school. I had my 20 year high school reunion! We had different playdates with friends. Kept busy with the garden. My sister and her family came into town at the end of the month, so we had lots of family time then.
August: More cottage time, woo-hoo! We made headway with Logan and then Caleb both trying to waterski. Caleb, Logan, and Levi went to VBS at Jamestown - we took Jack (neighbor friend) most of the days. Volleyball practices started. Went to the Hudsonville Fair. Took the volleyball girls for a beach day, and that was a fun time to get to know them better.
September: School started! I took Grace Schreur's senior photos. Things were crazy, but mostly manageable with volleyball practice and games. And, of course, Mike was busy at work during this whole time, but he handles it like a champ. Took the volleyball girls to a GVSU game and back to Sage's house for pizza and a movie, so fun. I think it was this month that I booked our tickets for Kenya in March 2019!
October: Finished up with volleyball. The packing shed finished with celery the day after. And, Mike and I both took a deep breath. :) We had our annual skeet shooting party with Harold and Kara (& kids), and Joe. Had an end of the season party with the volleyball team - crazy girls. Bought a 'new' piano! Caleb, Logan, and Levi started with piano lessons. I helped out at Grandparent's Day and Jackson did great. We worked at our church's CandyLand event.
November: Jackson turned 3. The kids applied for their passports, and I renewed mine. We had Parent-Teacher Conferences at school - good reports, phew! Fall Sports Awards Night. Mike and I had a weekend away - we stayed at the cottage, kids were at Eric and Lea Anne's. I started back up with church volleyball. Thanksgiving Dinner with the Krol/VanBeek's. Bought our 'new' car (Ford Expedition), Christmas activities with the Steenwyk's. We had a snow day! Mike flew to Texas with his boss to visit the Cantu's before Rolando passed. Caleb and Logan turned 9.
December: Attended a school fundraising auction, which is always a fun time, and I donated a cheesecake. Church Christmas Program - Jackson did his little dance with his cowboy boots on... We worked at our church's Live Nativity for two nights. Mike and I and the older three went to see Fiddler on the Roof (Jackson went to Padding's) - so good! Mike had his first ever eye exam and got new glasses. I agreed to be the Nursery Co-Chair at our church. We had Tiemeyer, Steenwyk, and Krol/VanBeek Christmas parties. For our S & K Farm Christmas Dinner we went to Ruth's Chris Steakhouse - farmer's in the big city at a fancy restaurant! We had a relaxing Christmas Day. Mike and I had a date night out at Carraba's thanks to a gift card from my volleyball girls.
There! That's a very brief overview of some of our activities from the year. There is so much more to it than this, but hopefully this will be enough to jog my memory when I read this someday. :)
The main thing we are looking forward to in 2019 is our trip to Kenya. I can't think of much else beyond that right now!
I'm going to attempt doing a brief review of our year. No details, just bullet points to make sure I get through it, otherwise it'll never happen!
January: Caleb got braces. Mike and I had an overnight without kids thanks to my brother and sister-in-law. Jose's mom cooked dinner for us at his house (amazing). Near the end of the month Mike went to Guyana on a missions trip with my parent's, brother, nephew, and another gentleman.
February: Mike returned from Guyana (yay!). Logan cooked a meal for us with Grandma. I went to Ohio for a few days - met up with college friends for dinner in Columbus, went to chapel with my nieces and their boyfriends, was able to have supper with my sister and her family as they were in town for the weekend, went to a special brunch for Amy as she was inducted into the Athletic Hall of Fame at Cedarville. Took the boys for a fun evening at the Holland Aquatic Center. Caleb had his ears checked out due to failing the hearing test at school.
March: Took the boys to Rebounderz (we had told them at Christmas that we would take them sometime and we finally got to go!). Went over to the Padding's for an evening. Levi had a friend over to play one weekend, and then went to a friend birthday party the next. I had a few activities at school I tried to help out with.
April: We survived Spring Break (which is quite a feat in Michigan). My guys made me proud at our church's Pinewood Derby.
May: Levi had his 6th birthday. I had an outpatient surgery (ablation). I worked a garage sale along with some other ladies from church - I look forward to it every year! Kicked off the summer with a cottage day over the Memorial Day weekend. Last day of school for the summer! (I was actually looking forward to it due to the difficulty of getting Jackson to cooperate with the school schedule.)
June: Caleb and Logan got to go to a friend's birthday party at a park. We had a couple cottage Saturday's. Caleb and Logan went to Drama Camp at school. I was asked to coach the high school volleyball team at Libertas. Mike went wake boarding at Action Water Sports for his birthday. We had a busy week at our church's VBS - the older three boys attended, I worked, and so Jackson was in the nursery (he was ready to be done by the end of the week!). Also, in the afternoons of that week, Caleb and Levi attended our school's soccer camp. I attended Libertas' Volleyball Camp. A few of us ran the Zeeland Zoom. Tom & Tera came into town and we had time to hang out with them!
July: Plenty of time at the cottage between the 4th of July and a "family weekend" with Tom & Tera around. And, around this time I was starting to get obsessed with trying to prepare for the volleyball season. Levi went to a friend's birthday party. Caleb, Logan, and Levi went to Chess Camp at school. I had my 20 year high school reunion! We had different playdates with friends. Kept busy with the garden. My sister and her family came into town at the end of the month, so we had lots of family time then.
August: More cottage time, woo-hoo! We made headway with Logan and then Caleb both trying to waterski. Caleb, Logan, and Levi went to VBS at Jamestown - we took Jack (neighbor friend) most of the days. Volleyball practices started. Went to the Hudsonville Fair. Took the volleyball girls for a beach day, and that was a fun time to get to know them better.
September: School started! I took Grace Schreur's senior photos. Things were crazy, but mostly manageable with volleyball practice and games. And, of course, Mike was busy at work during this whole time, but he handles it like a champ. Took the volleyball girls to a GVSU game and back to Sage's house for pizza and a movie, so fun. I think it was this month that I booked our tickets for Kenya in March 2019!
October: Finished up with volleyball. The packing shed finished with celery the day after. And, Mike and I both took a deep breath. :) We had our annual skeet shooting party with Harold and Kara (& kids), and Joe. Had an end of the season party with the volleyball team - crazy girls. Bought a 'new' piano! Caleb, Logan, and Levi started with piano lessons. I helped out at Grandparent's Day and Jackson did great. We worked at our church's CandyLand event.
November: Jackson turned 3. The kids applied for their passports, and I renewed mine. We had Parent-Teacher Conferences at school - good reports, phew! Fall Sports Awards Night. Mike and I had a weekend away - we stayed at the cottage, kids were at Eric and Lea Anne's. I started back up with church volleyball. Thanksgiving Dinner with the Krol/VanBeek's. Bought our 'new' car (Ford Expedition), Christmas activities with the Steenwyk's. We had a snow day! Mike flew to Texas with his boss to visit the Cantu's before Rolando passed. Caleb and Logan turned 9.
December: Attended a school fundraising auction, which is always a fun time, and I donated a cheesecake. Church Christmas Program - Jackson did his little dance with his cowboy boots on... We worked at our church's Live Nativity for two nights. Mike and I and the older three went to see Fiddler on the Roof (Jackson went to Padding's) - so good! Mike had his first ever eye exam and got new glasses. I agreed to be the Nursery Co-Chair at our church. We had Tiemeyer, Steenwyk, and Krol/VanBeek Christmas parties. For our S & K Farm Christmas Dinner we went to Ruth's Chris Steakhouse - farmer's in the big city at a fancy restaurant! We had a relaxing Christmas Day. Mike and I had a date night out at Carraba's thanks to a gift card from my volleyball girls.
There! That's a very brief overview of some of our activities from the year. There is so much more to it than this, but hopefully this will be enough to jog my memory when I read this someday. :)
The main thing we are looking forward to in 2019 is our trip to Kenya. I can't think of much else beyond that right now!
Sunday, November 25, 2018
check-up
***Oops, written several days ago and not published.***
Took Jackson in for his three-year well-child visit yesterday. He did great! (Until it was time to leave, which is generally how it goes when I take him in public...) He was super cute standing on the scale for the nurse, and getting his height measurement. He opened wide when the doctor asked to see his teeth, he sat still when he looked in his ears (which I am amazed at, he is SO SQUIRMY when I'm trying to clean his ears), and he was friendly (not surprising). Jackson is 32 lbs, which is the 59th percentile; and he is 3' 1.5" tall, which is *only* 49th percentile. ;) So, so thankful for an active, healthy little boy!
Some of our favorite words/sayings he says right now:
ree-tangle (rectangle)
The other night he said, "It's not sunny out, it's moony!"
"You're a bad boy!"
"I want somethin'." (When he wants to eat.)
We have had some sickness in the house already. Hoping this means we're getting it out of the way at the beginning of the season and the rest of winter will be smooth sailing... Last week Monday I had to pick Caleb up from school sick. Thankfully he didn't throw up until we got home. Then we were good the rest of the week until middle of the night Sunday night. Logan threw up. In the morning Levi said his tummy didn't feel good, so I kept them both home from school. Levi didn't end up throwing up and felt fine this morning, so we'll see if we're in the clear with him... Now I'm worried about what next Monday will bring! Hopefully this isn't a weekly thing.
I ended up just taking Logan and Levi with me to Jackson's appointment. I really didn't want to try and reschedule. Who could I ask to watch my sick kids? And, it seemed like I could make it through the appointment without them throwing up there (if I thought that was going to happen, I would have stayed home). The point of making the little guy's appointments during the day is so I can go WITHOUT the other kids, but oh well, we survived without chaos!
Took Jackson in for his three-year well-child visit yesterday. He did great! (Until it was time to leave, which is generally how it goes when I take him in public...) He was super cute standing on the scale for the nurse, and getting his height measurement. He opened wide when the doctor asked to see his teeth, he sat still when he looked in his ears (which I am amazed at, he is SO SQUIRMY when I'm trying to clean his ears), and he was friendly (not surprising). Jackson is 32 lbs, which is the 59th percentile; and he is 3' 1.5" tall, which is *only* 49th percentile. ;) So, so thankful for an active, healthy little boy!
Some of our favorite words/sayings he says right now:
ree-tangle (rectangle)
The other night he said, "It's not sunny out, it's moony!"
"You're a bad boy!"
"I want somethin'." (When he wants to eat.)
We have had some sickness in the house already. Hoping this means we're getting it out of the way at the beginning of the season and the rest of winter will be smooth sailing... Last week Monday I had to pick Caleb up from school sick. Thankfully he didn't throw up until we got home. Then we were good the rest of the week until middle of the night Sunday night. Logan threw up. In the morning Levi said his tummy didn't feel good, so I kept them both home from school. Levi didn't end up throwing up and felt fine this morning, so we'll see if we're in the clear with him... Now I'm worried about what next Monday will bring! Hopefully this isn't a weekly thing.
I ended up just taking Logan and Levi with me to Jackson's appointment. I really didn't want to try and reschedule. Who could I ask to watch my sick kids? And, it seemed like I could make it through the appointment without them throwing up there (if I thought that was going to happen, I would have stayed home). The point of making the little guy's appointments during the day is so I can go WITHOUT the other kids, but oh well, we survived without chaos!
Friday, November 2, 2018
three
Jackson is THREE today! How did that happen? He has been such a challenge, but at the same time, so. much. fun. Jackson has a strong will, a lot of personality, and he's not afraid to show it. He wants things done a certain way, and will loudly and defiantly express his displeasure if things aren't going the way he wants, no matter where we are. I've had so many unpleasant experiences with him in public that I hardly bat an eye anymore. For example, today we had to bring all four boys to the Post Office to apply for their passports. Before we were going Logan asked if we had been there before. He said something like, "You know, the place where to you talked to the guy and Jackson cried?" Me: "Ummmmm.....yeah, that's like every place I've been in public with him, I'm going to need a better description than that!" And, can I just say that it is REALLY HARD to discipline consistently when managing a busy household? Everything else doesn't just stop for a bit so that I can deal with one issue at a time.
But, Jackson can also be such a blast! He still loves to talk (big surprise), and has an ever expanding vocabulary. There are some words he doesn't pronounce correctly, and of course it's the cutest thing:
traptor = tractor
bana = banana
Miss Snephamie = Miss Stephanie (his Sunday School teacher)
brespes (or something like that) = breakfast
and a whole host more that I'm not thinking of right now.
Jackson is often quite friendly when we're out in public (if he's not mad and throwing a fit about something). People love his smile and the twinkle in his eye - how could you not?! He is doing so much better this school year than last. Waking him up in the morning generally goes well (especially now that Mike's around when the boys get up), and if I have to wake him up in the afternoon (he hardly naps anymore) he's generally not a total beast. Also, I'm actually able to help at some school things and have him along! It is so wonderful to feel freer to help out with some things and not have to worry about finding a sitter all the time.
Some things Jackson loves: his blue rain boots, almost any kind of dip for food (sour cream, guacamole, ranch, ketchup, mustard, and mayo...), forklifts, combines, being a stinker, and potty talk. Yup. We're having a harder time controlling that one with him than we have with the other boys.
As usual, I know I'm forgetting things that I'd love to record and remember. I LOVE seeing our boys grow up, but I hate forgetting all the cute little things they do when they're little!
I have plenty of other catching up to do on the blog, hopefully will have a chance for that soon...
But, Jackson can also be such a blast! He still loves to talk (big surprise), and has an ever expanding vocabulary. There are some words he doesn't pronounce correctly, and of course it's the cutest thing:
traptor = tractor
bana = banana
Miss Snephamie = Miss Stephanie (his Sunday School teacher)
brespes (or something like that) = breakfast
and a whole host more that I'm not thinking of right now.
Jackson is often quite friendly when we're out in public (if he's not mad and throwing a fit about something). People love his smile and the twinkle in his eye - how could you not?! He is doing so much better this school year than last. Waking him up in the morning generally goes well (especially now that Mike's around when the boys get up), and if I have to wake him up in the afternoon (he hardly naps anymore) he's generally not a total beast. Also, I'm actually able to help at some school things and have him along! It is so wonderful to feel freer to help out with some things and not have to worry about finding a sitter all the time.
Some things Jackson loves: his blue rain boots, almost any kind of dip for food (sour cream, guacamole, ranch, ketchup, mustard, and mayo...), forklifts, combines, being a stinker, and potty talk. Yup. We're having a harder time controlling that one with him than we have with the other boys.
As usual, I know I'm forgetting things that I'd love to record and remember. I LOVE seeing our boys grow up, but I hate forgetting all the cute little things they do when they're little!
I have plenty of other catching up to do on the blog, hopefully will have a chance for that soon...
Monday, July 16, 2018
shop
I forgot in the last post! A new Meijer store opened up in Hudsonville (Jamestown Township), and we trekked over there the first day it was open. I hadn't planned to, but then decided it could be fun to check it out, and I told the boys that it would be cool if someday they shopped there with their kids and could tell them they were there the day it opened. :) It was busy, but not too crazy. I took my mom along, and it's not like I was going to get a bunch of groceries. I let the boys each take a little bit of their own money to spend, so they spent some time picking out toys.
It will be handy having a Meijer a little closer, but I need an Aldi nearby!
It will be handy having a Meijer a little closer, but I need an Aldi nearby!
hot hot hot
We've certainly had some good, hot, summer weather the past few weeks! We were up at the cottage for the 4th, and the weekend following, and it was perfect weather to be at the lake. We are getting to the point of needing some rain, but hopefully we can hang in there a little longer as I don't think there's anything predicted for a few days.
We had such a great time with Tom, Tera, Luke, and Jude while they were in town. I love it that all the boys can just pick up with each other as if no time has passed. We had splash pad playdates, hang out time at our house, time at the cottage, and Levi was able to do an overnight with them at Grandpa and Grandma's house. It is rare that he gets to spend time with a cousin his age (since there are none on the Steenwyk side, and all of the ones his age on the Krol/VanBeek side live far away), so it was neat that that worked out. We started making some general plans for our trip to Kenya next winter, and we're getting more and more excited!
With everything going on, Mike and I weren't able to go out for our anniversary, but we hope to fit in a date soon! It was on a Sunday, and we just took the kids to Wendy's for lunch like any normal Sunday. :) I love my life, I love my marriage, I love my family, and I love it that we can be flexible together.
I've been staying a little busy with volleyball. Most of it is just that I have so much to learn before the season begins. We had an open gym last week; I met with the previous coach; and there was also an afternoon that I went to watch Unity Christian's volleyball camp and I had a chance to talk with their coach (so helpful!). Whenever I have spare time at home I'm looking up YouTube videos and researching all things volleyball.
Last Friday and Saturday the three older boys had Chess Camp at school, and I think they liked it. At least Caleb did - he won 2nd place in his age group. :) Beforehand Levi was saying he didn't want to go, but I think he ended up enjoying it. On Friday I toted Jackson around for a bunch of errands, and he did great!! We had such a nice time together. He was pleasant and patient. My momma heart really needed that after some rough times with him.
Saturday evening my high school graduating class had a TWENTY year reunion! So crazy. It's amazing how quickly so much time has passed. I'm not surprised this was our first reunion - our class didn't exactly like each other, and I think pretty much everyone was glad to be done and move one. And we all stayed in touch with the people we wanted to see on our own. Anyways, it really ended up being a nice time to reconnect.
It's been a strange start to the celery harvest. Usually things are getting pretty crazy by now for Mike, but they just started the second packing line today. And, over the past two weeks that the other line has been running, it's been pretty light, even taking a day or two off from packing and some lighter days. I would imagine soon they'll be getting into the better celery and things will ramp up!
Things are starting to happen in the garden. I've been getting some peppers, zucchini, and beans. Of course I'm having trouble staying on top of the weeds. At least I can still tell what's what out there. With as dry as it's been I have been doing some watering, which I don't normally need to do.
We've been busy with random things, but nothing pressing like the week of VBS was, and it's been SO great. I love summer like this!
We had such a great time with Tom, Tera, Luke, and Jude while they were in town. I love it that all the boys can just pick up with each other as if no time has passed. We had splash pad playdates, hang out time at our house, time at the cottage, and Levi was able to do an overnight with them at Grandpa and Grandma's house. It is rare that he gets to spend time with a cousin his age (since there are none on the Steenwyk side, and all of the ones his age on the Krol/VanBeek side live far away), so it was neat that that worked out. We started making some general plans for our trip to Kenya next winter, and we're getting more and more excited!
With everything going on, Mike and I weren't able to go out for our anniversary, but we hope to fit in a date soon! It was on a Sunday, and we just took the kids to Wendy's for lunch like any normal Sunday. :) I love my life, I love my marriage, I love my family, and I love it that we can be flexible together.
I've been staying a little busy with volleyball. Most of it is just that I have so much to learn before the season begins. We had an open gym last week; I met with the previous coach; and there was also an afternoon that I went to watch Unity Christian's volleyball camp and I had a chance to talk with their coach (so helpful!). Whenever I have spare time at home I'm looking up YouTube videos and researching all things volleyball.
Last Friday and Saturday the three older boys had Chess Camp at school, and I think they liked it. At least Caleb did - he won 2nd place in his age group. :) Beforehand Levi was saying he didn't want to go, but I think he ended up enjoying it. On Friday I toted Jackson around for a bunch of errands, and he did great!! We had such a nice time together. He was pleasant and patient. My momma heart really needed that after some rough times with him.
Saturday evening my high school graduating class had a TWENTY year reunion! So crazy. It's amazing how quickly so much time has passed. I'm not surprised this was our first reunion - our class didn't exactly like each other, and I think pretty much everyone was glad to be done and move one. And we all stayed in touch with the people we wanted to see on our own. Anyways, it really ended up being a nice time to reconnect.
It's been a strange start to the celery harvest. Usually things are getting pretty crazy by now for Mike, but they just started the second packing line today. And, over the past two weeks that the other line has been running, it's been pretty light, even taking a day or two off from packing and some lighter days. I would imagine soon they'll be getting into the better celery and things will ramp up!
Things are starting to happen in the garden. I've been getting some peppers, zucchini, and beans. Of course I'm having trouble staying on top of the weeds. At least I can still tell what's what out there. With as dry as it's been I have been doing some watering, which I don't normally need to do.
We've been busy with random things, but nothing pressing like the week of VBS was, and it's been SO great. I love summer like this!
Saturday, June 30, 2018
june
It's been a busy first month of summer break, and I'm ready for things to slow to a more leisurely pace! Between church, school activities, friends, and family, we have been on the go a lot. Some of us are handling it better than others. :)
Church
A few weeks ago we had the privilege of getting up in front of church as a family and making an announcement about the nursery. The nursery is always short of workers, and we were hoping that by getting up in front with our whole family and talking about what a blessing the nursery has been to us would be more impactful. We got lots of comments afterwards, but what matters is if people actually went and signed up to help afterwards! (I heard of one.)
Last week was our Vacation Bible School. I was a 4th grade leader along with a friend from our class (Kara); Caleb, Logan, and Levi were with each of their age groups; and Jackson was in the nursery. It was a long week! Overall things went well being a leader, and I enjoyed it despite getting exhausted, but it was a rough week on Jackson and that really weighed me down.
School
The second week of summer break Caleb and Logan attended Drama Camp. They had a couple small parts in a production of The Jungle Book, and it was such a funny and cute play! They went to camp four mornings, and then in the evening of the last day they put on the play. It was a beautiful night and they did the play outdoors. They love Drama class at school, so it was neat for them to have this camp to attend.
The next week was VBS in the morning, and then Caleb and Levi attended Soccer Camp in the afternoon. That's part of what made the week so rough on all of us. I don't like packing so many activities in, a slightly slower pace is more my style, but we thought VBS and soccer were both good things to be involved in, so it was just a bummer that they ended up being the same week. On one of the days I stayed during the camp time to chat with the former volleyball coach (more on that in a minute), and it was basically not good with Jackson. I was definitely frustrated and stressed.
So, a few weeks ago I got a phone call out of the blue asking if I would consider coaching volleyball at Libertas. I wasn't sure what to think at first. It seemed kinda cool, but the timing didn't seem great (both time of year and time of life), and I'm just not sure about my coaching abilities. But, Mike seemed pretty excited about it for me, and the more I thought and prayed about it, it seemed like a neat opportunity. At first the idea of volleyball season and celery harvest being at the same time seemed like a bad idea, but now I figure Mike's going to be busy at work most of the times I'm busy with volleyball anyways, so it's not so bad. I'm going to have to trust the Lord to work out childcare for the boys, and that's probably one of the tougher aspects of this for me. I am both nervous and excited about this. I have so much to learn about coaching, but I really feel this is an opportunity that God put before me to get more involved at Libertas and be an influence to the girls on the team. So, a couple weeks ago I accepted the job, and then this past week I attended Volleyball Camp. Thankfully I did not have to run the camp, I definitely did not have enough time to prepare for that, but I was excited to go and meet some of the girls and be involved. I majorly stressed about working out childcare, so this will definitely be an area of growth for me. If I truly believe that this is something God put before me and wants me to do, then I have to completely trust that this is all going to work out. Practices will start in August, so I've got just over a month to prepare!!
Family & Friends
The first week of summer break Caleb and Logan were invited to two different birthday parties! One was more of a party at the park with a whole bunch of boys, the other was a playdate with a friend from school for his birthday, and they ended up asking Levi to stay, too, so that was nice for him.
There was a weekend that we went up to the cottage on Friday night and stayed overnight. Thankfully Friday night was decent, but Saturday was chilly!
For Mike's birthday I gave him a gift certificate to Action Water Sports' cable wake park. He was excited to take advantage of it, so we went a few days later. It was really fun to watch him! I wasn't sure what to expect for the spectators, but they have a really nice area where you can sit and watch, and a small swimming area for the kids. Mike had a blast and was quite sore for several days afterwards.
A couple Saturday's ago we went to a wedding for one of Mike's step-cousins. We always have fun at family weddings like that! Harold & Kara, Steve & Erin, and Mike & I were together. Somehow we got ushered right up to the front for the ceremony since we're family (even in front of the aunts and uncles!!) - we had a good laugh about that one. And, of course, we all had fun together at the reception.
The next day was Father's Day, and we met up with my parent's at Red Robin.
Last Saturday we went up to the cottage again, and it was another cool day. Hoping it's better next weekend... Tom & Tera are in town from Kenya right now, and we've been having a lot of fun spending time with them. The kids have SO MUCH FUN all together.
This past week was fairly busy, too, but it was so much nicer not to have to rush off in the morning like we did for VBS. That seems to have made a big difference for Jackson, his moods have been so much better. Not perfect, but better. I went to volleyball camp Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday afternoons; Caleb, Logan, and Levi went with Eric, Lea Anne, Boden, and Heidi to their church's VBS Monday and Wednesday evenings (they loved it!); and on Tuesday evening we ran the Zeeland Zoom! Logan and Levi did the 1 mile Fun Run, Mike (with Jackson in the stroller), Caleb, and I ran the 5k. Also on Tuesday, a couple friends from school came for a few hours while their mom had to go to work. (Throw in neighbor friends coming to play and my house was busy! I love it that way, though.) On Thursday the boys and I met Tom, Tera, Luke, and Jude at the splash pad in Jenison, then in the afternoon we had to boogie to Zeeland for an orthodontist appointment for Caleb. (Most of the appointment went well, and then Jackson started to break down at the end. I was hugely relieved when Caleb came out all done.) Last night Tom and Tera and the boys came over for dinner and to hang out, and today we met them at the splash pad in Zeeland. We are soaking up our time with them!
Mike
Mike totally rocked the 5k while pushing Jackson in the stroller. Finished 5th in his age group (out of way more than 5...)! He has been super consistent with working out over the last several months, and it really shows.
Celery harvest has been pushed out this year due to our wintry Spring. It feels strange to not be started yet! They will be harvesting some on Monday, but then taking a break for a couple days before getting back at it. And, that's only one packing line, the other line will start up a little later into July.
Boys
We were so proud of how each of the boys did at the race earlier this week. Logan and Levi both took the 1 mile run pretty seriously, and looked like they were really doing their best running hard. Caleb did a great job on the 5k despite minimal training, and Mike said Jackson did really well in the stroller (I wouldn't know, I was too far behind!).
Did I mention before that we got Mike & Emily's trampoline? The boys have LOVED it, and they don't seem to tire of it, they can spend hours out there.
We're still casually working on Jackson's potty training. He's doing pretty well with #1, but we're not making a whole lot of progress with #2. Which is funny because several months ago he did it on the potty a couple times (before ever doing #1 on the potty), but now he refuses to poop in the toilet. We're not pushing the issue too hard yet, but at some point I suppose we will. It's almost unbelievable to think we're almost done with diapers!!!
Church
A few weeks ago we had the privilege of getting up in front of church as a family and making an announcement about the nursery. The nursery is always short of workers, and we were hoping that by getting up in front with our whole family and talking about what a blessing the nursery has been to us would be more impactful. We got lots of comments afterwards, but what matters is if people actually went and signed up to help afterwards! (I heard of one.)
Last week was our Vacation Bible School. I was a 4th grade leader along with a friend from our class (Kara); Caleb, Logan, and Levi were with each of their age groups; and Jackson was in the nursery. It was a long week! Overall things went well being a leader, and I enjoyed it despite getting exhausted, but it was a rough week on Jackson and that really weighed me down.
School
The second week of summer break Caleb and Logan attended Drama Camp. They had a couple small parts in a production of The Jungle Book, and it was such a funny and cute play! They went to camp four mornings, and then in the evening of the last day they put on the play. It was a beautiful night and they did the play outdoors. They love Drama class at school, so it was neat for them to have this camp to attend.
The next week was VBS in the morning, and then Caleb and Levi attended Soccer Camp in the afternoon. That's part of what made the week so rough on all of us. I don't like packing so many activities in, a slightly slower pace is more my style, but we thought VBS and soccer were both good things to be involved in, so it was just a bummer that they ended up being the same week. On one of the days I stayed during the camp time to chat with the former volleyball coach (more on that in a minute), and it was basically not good with Jackson. I was definitely frustrated and stressed.
So, a few weeks ago I got a phone call out of the blue asking if I would consider coaching volleyball at Libertas. I wasn't sure what to think at first. It seemed kinda cool, but the timing didn't seem great (both time of year and time of life), and I'm just not sure about my coaching abilities. But, Mike seemed pretty excited about it for me, and the more I thought and prayed about it, it seemed like a neat opportunity. At first the idea of volleyball season and celery harvest being at the same time seemed like a bad idea, but now I figure Mike's going to be busy at work most of the times I'm busy with volleyball anyways, so it's not so bad. I'm going to have to trust the Lord to work out childcare for the boys, and that's probably one of the tougher aspects of this for me. I am both nervous and excited about this. I have so much to learn about coaching, but I really feel this is an opportunity that God put before me to get more involved at Libertas and be an influence to the girls on the team. So, a couple weeks ago I accepted the job, and then this past week I attended Volleyball Camp. Thankfully I did not have to run the camp, I definitely did not have enough time to prepare for that, but I was excited to go and meet some of the girls and be involved. I majorly stressed about working out childcare, so this will definitely be an area of growth for me. If I truly believe that this is something God put before me and wants me to do, then I have to completely trust that this is all going to work out. Practices will start in August, so I've got just over a month to prepare!!
Family & Friends
The first week of summer break Caleb and Logan were invited to two different birthday parties! One was more of a party at the park with a whole bunch of boys, the other was a playdate with a friend from school for his birthday, and they ended up asking Levi to stay, too, so that was nice for him.
There was a weekend that we went up to the cottage on Friday night and stayed overnight. Thankfully Friday night was decent, but Saturday was chilly!
For Mike's birthday I gave him a gift certificate to Action Water Sports' cable wake park. He was excited to take advantage of it, so we went a few days later. It was really fun to watch him! I wasn't sure what to expect for the spectators, but they have a really nice area where you can sit and watch, and a small swimming area for the kids. Mike had a blast and was quite sore for several days afterwards.
A couple Saturday's ago we went to a wedding for one of Mike's step-cousins. We always have fun at family weddings like that! Harold & Kara, Steve & Erin, and Mike & I were together. Somehow we got ushered right up to the front for the ceremony since we're family (even in front of the aunts and uncles!!) - we had a good laugh about that one. And, of course, we all had fun together at the reception.
The next day was Father's Day, and we met up with my parent's at Red Robin.
Last Saturday we went up to the cottage again, and it was another cool day. Hoping it's better next weekend... Tom & Tera are in town from Kenya right now, and we've been having a lot of fun spending time with them. The kids have SO MUCH FUN all together.
This past week was fairly busy, too, but it was so much nicer not to have to rush off in the morning like we did for VBS. That seems to have made a big difference for Jackson, his moods have been so much better. Not perfect, but better. I went to volleyball camp Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday afternoons; Caleb, Logan, and Levi went with Eric, Lea Anne, Boden, and Heidi to their church's VBS Monday and Wednesday evenings (they loved it!); and on Tuesday evening we ran the Zeeland Zoom! Logan and Levi did the 1 mile Fun Run, Mike (with Jackson in the stroller), Caleb, and I ran the 5k. Also on Tuesday, a couple friends from school came for a few hours while their mom had to go to work. (Throw in neighbor friends coming to play and my house was busy! I love it that way, though.) On Thursday the boys and I met Tom, Tera, Luke, and Jude at the splash pad in Jenison, then in the afternoon we had to boogie to Zeeland for an orthodontist appointment for Caleb. (Most of the appointment went well, and then Jackson started to break down at the end. I was hugely relieved when Caleb came out all done.) Last night Tom and Tera and the boys came over for dinner and to hang out, and today we met them at the splash pad in Zeeland. We are soaking up our time with them!
Mike
Mike totally rocked the 5k while pushing Jackson in the stroller. Finished 5th in his age group (out of way more than 5...)! He has been super consistent with working out over the last several months, and it really shows.
Celery harvest has been pushed out this year due to our wintry Spring. It feels strange to not be started yet! They will be harvesting some on Monday, but then taking a break for a couple days before getting back at it. And, that's only one packing line, the other line will start up a little later into July.
Boys
We were so proud of how each of the boys did at the race earlier this week. Logan and Levi both took the 1 mile run pretty seriously, and looked like they were really doing their best running hard. Caleb did a great job on the 5k despite minimal training, and Mike said Jackson did really well in the stroller (I wouldn't know, I was too far behind!).
Did I mention before that we got Mike & Emily's trampoline? The boys have LOVED it, and they don't seem to tire of it, they can spend hours out there.
We're still casually working on Jackson's potty training. He's doing pretty well with #1, but we're not making a whole lot of progress with #2. Which is funny because several months ago he did it on the potty a couple times (before ever doing #1 on the potty), but now he refuses to poop in the toilet. We're not pushing the issue too hard yet, but at some point I suppose we will. It's almost unbelievable to think we're almost done with diapers!!!
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